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Understanding Relapse ...................................................

5/12/2022

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A relapse can be big or small. For example, maybe you took a sip of wine in celebration or binge ate whilst in recovery for an eating disorder or maybe you self harmed. All of these things are normal for someone in recovery. Here are five quick things to think about post-relapse:

  1. Sobriety is not a straight path. People make mistakes, change and grow. While relapses can be heartbreaking and an especially somber event, they are not permanent. You will always have the opportunity to become sober again, and build a longer lasting distance between your addiction and yourself.  

  2. Knowing your triggers. What caused you to relapse? Was it your friends or being around someone currently using or self harming? Did bad memories surface that you would’ve rather stay hidden? Whatever your trigger was, there was something leading up to your relapse. When you find out what or who might’ve triggered you or caused this lapse in sobriety, it’ll be easier for you to move forward and remember in the future.

  3. Being honest with yourself and others. As difficult as it may be, being honest with those who are supporting you is one of the best things you can do. Being honest about your relapse(s), especially with those in your support network can prevent it from happening again in the future. Your mental health will likely be affected by this, so having people around you who will provide actual support and understanding toward you during this time is imperative.

  4. Forgiving yourself and others. Part of recovery is learning to forgive yourself for things you have done. Addiction is selfish and unforgiving; take back your power by realizing that you can and likely will make mistakes. You are not your addiction. Remind yourself how hard you worked to get as far as you have on the path to sobriety.

  5. Embrace your emotions. While relapses can cause depression, manic behavior, anxiety, etc., it’s good to allow yourself to feel all of these things to prevent it from happening in the future. These feelings can help to remind you that while you made a mistake, you have the power to not yield to your addiction again. These feelings are healthy and will help you feel better in the long run.

Relapse can be difficult and may feel all encompassing when it happens, but it is not the end for your sobriety. You still hold all the cards in terms of sobriety and one mistake on this path will not stop you from continuing to becoming a sober individual. Recovery can be hard, but you are still worthy of healing. Remind yourself of these five things wherever you are in your path to health.  

Candace Davis is TLC's Social Media intern. She has a penchant for writing about those with mental health struggles and all things social media. 
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Ditching the Stigma  ...........................................

5/5/2022

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Seeking counseling has always had a negative connotation, especially in BIPOC cultures. I know that in my culture, a lot of individuals do not want to seek counseling because they feel as though counseling is for “crazy people” or they do not want to be labeled. Sadly, they choose to deal with problems on their own or self-medicate which sometimes causes more stress and depression. Fortunately, more and more people are enlightened about how freeing counseling is, but there are still others who are uneducated about the importance and value of counseling. 

4 Reasons why is counseling important:
  • Allows you to release emotions- Having a safe non-judgmental environment where you could discuss those build up emotions is healthy for your mental well-being. The best part about this is that everything you express to the counselor is confidential. This means that you don’t have to worry about anyone knowing about anything you discussed in sessions.

  • Decreases stress– Whether you are stressed and overwhelmed with all that you are managing daily or from life events that have taken place, a counselor will guide you with managing that stress. Although your issues don’t disappear, counselors can bring awareness on how to manage situations in a healthy way.

  • Help you manage emotions- Counselors will help guide you to develop healthy coping strategies to manage your emotions better.

  • Help you identify hidden reasons for your behavior- In some cases our behaviors signify the hidden trauma that we have not dealt with. An example of this would be a person who experienced abandonment, is defensive and lacks trust with others due to their hidden emotions from the hurt they feel from being abandoned. Counselors can help you connect your patterns and behaviors to those hidden emotions.  
 
Seek Counseling: Let’s ditch the stigma around seeking counseling when you need it. Look at it this way, if you see a doctor for your medical needs, why not see a counselor for your mental needs? I cannot stress enough how freeing and liberating counseling it is as it truly promotes a healthier way of living. If you ever thought about receiving counseling give it a try! 

Patricia Jallah is a Master Level Therapist Intern at TLC. She specializes in Substance Use Disorder treatment and works with teens (14-19 y/o), adults and seniors who also experience depression, anxiety and bi-polar disorder.
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